5 stars for After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid.
After I Do is an amazingly, perfectly, wonderfully beautiful, yet achingly honest story. It is a timeless tale of relationships and the roles we play in making or breaking them.
- How is it possible to hate and love, miss and loathe each other all within the same breath?
- How does one handle and manage the conflicting feelings of never wanting to see each other again while never wanting to let go?
- Where does it leave us when to make things easier by bottling up feelings of unhappiness is actually making things more difficult and resentful in the long run?
- How can a marriage evolve and yet proof that the couple is still tied to each other?
As much as this seems to be a book for the ladies and wives, it is very much a story apt for the men and husbands. After all, it takes two wings to fly, two legs to walk, two hands to clap, and two hearts to love.
Falling in love with someone is easy. It is loving when the newness has worn off, when life gets tough, when things get in the way, that complicate matters of the heart. In a similar fashion, falling out of love with that same someone is easy too. But when you fall out of love, it does not mean that you stop loving said someone. They simply don't make your heart beat faster.
At the end of the day, all that really matters in a relationship is that you open your heart, give everything you have, and keep trying. That is so real, a practical lesson for everyone, yet easier said than done.
A highly recommended read.